My footsteps
All the years you have waited for them to “make it up to you” and all the energy you expended trying to make them change [or make them pay] kept the old wounds from healing and gave pain from the past free rein to shape and even damage your life. And still they may not have changed. Nothing you have done has made them change. Indeed, they may never change. Inner peace is found by changing yourself, not the people who hurt you. And you change yourself for yourself, for the joy, serenity, peace of mind, understanding, compassion, laughter, and bright future that you get.
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| — | Lewis Smedes (via quote-book) |
Scars remind us where we’ve been. They don’t have to dictate where we’re going.
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| — | Agent David Rossi (Criminal Minds, Season 5, Episode 10: The Slave of Duty) via Safari Poet (via quote-book) |
The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.
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Barbara De Angelis (via artpixie)
For u baby. |
